Yeah well, I'm sorry, I didn't want to come out as aggressive or anything. It's just, I'm tired of hearing "this is just the way it is, period" to justify the hetero-normality or the place of gender in society. As a bisexual women it gets pretty exhausting. And not speaking English from birth, it's hard to be sure the tone matches the intention. Sorry if I was wrong about you and reacted too quickly.